Your heart is crying out with the desire to have your husband back! You now realize that your marriage was crumbling so slowly and quietly that you hardly knew it. Now it looks like it's coming to an end, but you are not willing to let it die if you have anything to say about it. You want to do something and you know there is no time to waste. Here are some tips to help you restore your marriage so you can say without a doubt that you want your husband back.Be Willing To Make Changes - If you are willing to make changes in the way you approach your marriage, your husband may also be willing. Both of you need a fresh perspective. Don't Play the Blame Game - It's important to realize that only one person does not cause the break up of a marriage. In other words, it's not one person who makes it work, and another who causes it to fall apart. Each of you bears some responsibility, and both of you need to pull your own weight in making things right again. Find Common Ground - Analyze what motivates you and makes you happy. Have your husband do the same. If some love remains, you will be able to find common ground, which will be the foundation for rekindling your relationship. Bring Back the Joy - Use the common ground you find to your advantage. Experiencing life together in ways you both enjoy will generate some excitement. Be spontaneous and bring the joy back into your life. Express Your Appreciation and Respect - In an atmosphere of doing things together that you both love, don't refrain from expressing how much you appreciate him and how special you think he is. Men thrive on respect. When you are can wholeheartedly say that you want your husband back, you may be surprised to find out that he wants you back as well.
Don't settle for a mediocre relationship just because you don't think it's possible to completely regain the closeness you once shared. Believe that the best in life is yet to come if you are willing to work for it. When you honestly feel in your heart that you want your husband back, expect to rekindle a relationship that is stronger than ever.